{"id":134,"date":"2010-12-06T20:20:02","date_gmt":"2010-12-06T20:20:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/?p=134"},"modified":"2011-10-29T20:36:05","modified_gmt":"2011-10-29T20:36:05","slug":"scurvy-elephants-and-childhood-misconceptions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/scurvy-elephants-and-childhood-misconceptions\/","title":{"rendered":"Scurvy Elephants and Childhood Misconceptions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am a great fan of Dr Wayne Dyer, the respected American self-help advocate, author, and lecturer, and once had the great privilege to listen to him speak at a luau next to his home in Maui, Hawaii. He is a master of recounting anecdotes from his family life, and uses his own experiences as a example.  One of my favorite anecdotes from Wayne Dyer concerns his revelations about scurvy elephants, and goes something like this:<\/p>\n<p>Wayne Dyer came home from school one day and asked his mum, &#8220;What&#8217;s a scurvy elephant?&#8221;. She told him she&#8217;d never heard of one and asked where he&#8217;d heard it. &#8220;From my teacher; he said I was a scurvy elephant.&#8221; Bewildered, his mother called the teacher and asked what he had meant. The teacher responded, &#8220;As usual Wayne got it wrong. I didn&#8217;t say he was a scurvy elephant; I said he was a disturbing element!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I love this story because it reminds me of my childhood and the mistakes I used to make. How many times did I mishear something and jumped to a wrong conclusion. Sometimes I have constructed whole alternative explanations for things and incorporated them into my reality, only to learn much later that I have got it wrong, and the misconception has collapsed.  It is part of growing up and reevaluating what is happening around you. You learn from your mistakes and grow as a person. However, I wonder how many other things I have misheard or misunderstood and built into a false reality, but not yet learned the error of my ways.<\/p>\n<p>It also resonates with me as I have been called a Scurvy Elephant (and worse) many times because I haven&#8217;t always fitted in to other people&#8217;s model of the world.  Who is to say who&#8217;s view is right and who&#8217;s is wrong?  Sometimes you just have to have your own opinion and do what you know is right.  Wayne Dyer is proud to be a Scurvy Elephant and I am pleased to join him.<\/p>\n<p>If you are not yet sure if you are a Scurvy Elephant and want to find out more, why not <a href=\" http:\/\/www.drwaynedyer.com\/\" title=\"click here to visit Dr Wayne Dyer's website\">click here to visit Dr Wayne Dyer&#8217;s website<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am a great fan of Dr Wayne Dyer, the respected American self-help advocate, author, and lecturer, and once had the great privilege to listen to him speak at a luau next to his home in Maui, Hawaii. He is a master of recounting anecdotes from his family life, and uses his own experiences as &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/scurvy-elephants-and-childhood-misconceptions\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Scurvy Elephants and Childhood Misconceptions&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[73,59,1],"tags":[58],"class_list":["post-134","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-inspiration","category-metaphor","category-news","tag-metaphors"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=134"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":172,"href":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134\/revisions\/172"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=134"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=134"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/brucethompsoncoaching.com\/main\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=134"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}